There are no two ways about it — kids are expensive.
If you're not already a parent, you might think, "They don't eat very much and they share my house, so how expensive could they be?" But according to a cost calculator from BabyCenter.com, my 11-year old daughter will cost me over $22,000 this year alone. That figure includes several factors, like housing, food, transportation, and health care, but it doesn't take into account savings for college and living expenses once she leaves the nest.
So what are the best ways for aspiring or current parents to sock away cash for their pricey progenies? I asked finance experts to share the best ways to save money for a child.
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Understand Your Cash Flow
According to Douglas Boneparth, a CFP and president of Bone Fide Wealth, a financial planning firm in New York City, the most fundamental aspect of saving for your child's future is have a deep understanding of your own cash flow.
"I call it being a master of cash flow," Boneparth said. "That’s intimately understanding how money comes in and out of your life. This way you can make informed decisions about which expenses you want to continue paying for, or cut back on if you’re looking to increase your savings, or if you’re looking to allocate money towards new expenses related to having a child. We really want people to understand their own data and understand their own spending behaviors and habits."
There are a number of online tools that Boneparth recommends parents check out to help them better understand their spending habits, including Tiller Money, Mint, and You Need A Budget.
Be Consistent
When it comes to both tracking your money and savings, Boneparth says that it's crucial that you keep up with it consistently — always monitoring your spending and saving goals week after week and month after month, and not letting your tracking fall by the wayside.
"I just want people to get into the habit of knowing where their money goes so that they can consistently save for their goals because it’s about consistency," he said.
Invest Early
It make sense that the more years spent saving, the more money you'll have, but when it comes to future expenses with a deadline, like college, this is especially important. Nick Holeman, CFP at online investment platform Betterment, suggests a 529 fund for this purpose.
"A 529 account specifically allows money to grow tax-free, as long as withdrawals are used for a qualified educational expense," he says. "You can start contributing to a 529 as early as you want, and kids can contribute a portion of their own money as well."
Go Beyond the 529
A 529 plan is not the only way to go when saving for college. "Other plans, like the Uniform Gift to Minors Act (UGMA) or Uniform Transfers to Minors Act (UTMA) accounts, offer more investment options," says Jack Schacht, founder of My College Planning Team, a company that provides college planning assistance for families. "Just remember that both a UGMA and UTMA require that you hand over control of the account to the student when they reach a certain age."
Keep Things Separate
Setting up a savings account that is separate from the accounts you use regularly can help keep the money where it belongs—in the account. Jennifer Barrett, Chief Education Officer at Acorns, a micro-investing platform, suggests a high-yield savings account at an FDIC-insured bank for this purpose. "You want to get the best rate possible—think 1.5 percent APY or more," she says. She also suggests giving a nickname to your account, like "My Baby Fund." Research shows that giving your savings account a name that's meaningful can help create an emotional connection that motivates you to keep saving.
As They Grow, Sell
Part of the reason that kids are so expensive is that they grow out of what you purchase for them. That highly-rated car seat you invested in and those super-warm snow boots that you sprung for last season? They have a shelf life. Thankfully, there are many services out there that allow parents to sell the items their kids outgrow. According to OfferUp, a platform that lets you sell gently used items to people who live near you, there are certain times of the year when parents can get the best value for certain items:
- Crib: If you sell your crib in March, you can earn 30 percent more than if you sold it in December.
- Stroller: Because more babies are born in July and August, necessary items, like strollers, are in high demand in June, earning you 10 percent more than any other month.
- Snow Gear: October, right before the snowy weather begins, is the best time to sell your snow gear. You could earn $110 in October versus $90 in November.
With your earnings, you can buy new or used items that your kids currently need, or sock that money away.
Insure, Sensibly
When you're shopping for insurance, look for a company that offers extra benefits that you can partake in. For instance, DIY expert Chip Wade found that bundling his insurance allowed him to save every month.
"Through Liberty Mutual Insurance, a company I do some consulting for, you can be looking at savings if you bundle a home or renter's policy with your existing auto policy," he said. "They also offer a new discount on pet insurance as well as one for installing smart home technology." You can also save when adding teen drivers to your auto insurance, especially if they maintain good grades. So, when you're shopping for insurance, ask what the company can do for you before committing.
Work Perks
Sometimes employers offer perks that can be beneficial to your saving efforts. Jordan Sowhangar, CFP and a wealth advisor at Univest Investments Inc., suggests taking a closer look at the perks available to you. "Benefits could include a Health Savings Account (HSA) or discounts on things like daycare," she says. "Sometimes you can even get discounts on items like laptops if your child is high school or college age."
Financial Gifts
Family members might be in a position to help out with big expenses, like tuition. But, before accepting any financial gifts, make sure you know the rules.
For instance, while a relative can give their child or grandchild up to $14,000 a year without incurring a gift tax, that money can reduce their grandchild's eligibility for aid on their FAFSA (Free Application for Federal Student Aid). Schacht suggests that relatives ask first before offering money as a gift. "If the family is applying for aid, you might want to hold off on helping out during the college years. Instead, consider a generous gift once the child graduates," he says.
Teach Along the Way
Your saving efforts can also present opportunities to teach your child about money. They're going to be on their own at some point, so why not set them up for success? Sowhangar suggests getting them involved early on by teaching them the value of money and setting realistic expectations. "They can learn there is a value to a dollar, money does not just grow on trees and hopefully, they will be less likely to put pressure on the parents in their teen years," she says.
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FAQs
What is the best way to save for your child's future? ›
- Open a savings account. Traditional savings accounts offer a tried-and-true way to store money. ...
- Open a custodial account. ...
- Start a 529 plan. ...
- Open a Roth IRA. ...
- Set up a trust fund. ...
- Teach them how to save for themselves.
- Make a habit of saving.
- Set up saving goals.
- Visually track savings progress.
- Keep money safe in an app like GoHenry.
- Earn allowance for doing chores.
- Spend less money.
- Offer saving incentives.
- Leave some room for mistakes.
- Move to the best neighborhood you can afford. ...
- Become a happier and less stressed person yourself. ...
- Make them do chores. ...
- Make your kids read daily and learn math at early age. ...
- Set high expectations. ...
- Praise them correctly. ...
- Create family rituals. ...
- Teach them to be "gritty."
- Invest in the stock market. ...
- Invest in real estate. ...
- Build a business to pass down. ...
- Take advantage of life insurance. ...
- Invest in your child's education. ...
- Teach your children about personal finance.
- Create a Budget. ...
- Take a Few Hand-Me-Downs and Swap Clothes. ...
- Buy in Bulk. ...
- Shop Yard Sales For You and the Kids. ...
- Make Your Own Lattes. ...
- Pack Everyone's Lunches. ...
- Drop the Unnecessary Stuff. ...
- Set a Portion of Your Income to Transfer to Savings.
- Savings accounts. One of the ways you can help your kids get set up is by opening a savings account for them. ...
- Managed funds. Another investment option is managed funds. ...
- Insurance bonds. ...
- Shares. ...
- Super funds.
Saving gives you peace of mind, teaches you to distinguish between needs and wants, fosters good money management habits, and most importantly, helps you achieve your goals faster.
What are 10 things you can do to save money? ›- Track your spending. One of the greatest contributors to overspending is a credit card. ...
- Establish a budget. ...
- Set up savings goals. ...
- Use an automated tool. ...
- Prepare for grocery shopping in advance. ...
- Bring your lunch to work. ...
- Stop paying for cable television. ...
- Create an emergency fund.
- Set one specific goal. Rather than socking away money into a savings account, set specific goals for your savings. ...
- Budget for savings. Just because you decide to save doesn't mean it's going to happen. ...
- Make saving automatic. ...
- Keep separate accounts. ...
- Monitor & watch it grow.
- Financial independence. Financial independence gives you the ability to live without depending on others for financial support. ...
- Emergency funds. ...
- Debt Free Living. ...
- Better Retirement. ...
- Leave a legacy for loved ones. ...
- Achieve long-term financial goals. ...
- Investing. ...
- Irregular or recurring expenses.
What are the 3 rules of saving money? ›
It's our simple rule of thumb for saving and spending: allocating no more than 50% of take-home pay to essential expenses, 15% of pre-tax income to retirement savings, and 5% of take-home pay to short-term savings.
How do I save money daily? ›- Join loyalty programs to reap rewards. ...
- Shop with a cash-back credit card. ...
- Cancel subscriptions you aren't using. ...
- DIY when you can. ...
- Set up automatic bill payments. ...
- Switch bank accounts. ...
- Look for extra cash lying around in your budget. ...
- Carefully scrutinize your spending.
- Identify what you're saving for. ...
- Remember that you can negotiate. ...
- Focus on cleaning up your credit card record. ...
- Communicate with the banks and credit bureaus. ...
- Set goals with a specific timeline. ...
- Nickname your savings account. ...
- Reduce expenses. ...
- Pause retirement and other contributions.
- Use just one calendar. If you have kids, you probably have a lot of activities going on. ...
- Create routines. ...
- Teach self-sufficiency from an early age. ...
- Plan ahead. ...
- Come prepared. ...
- Streamline regularly. ...
- Schedule in family time.
- Here are the necessities every kid needs:
- A reliable environment. Children need to know they are protected (as much as possible) from the outside world. ...
- Opportunities to grow. ...
- Connectivity. ...
- Encouragement. ...
- Problem solving skills.
- Consider insurance—both life and disability. ...
- Increase your emergency fund. ...
- Take advantage of tax breaks. ...
- Start saving for college now. ...
- Prioritize retirement savings. ...
- Update your estate planning documents.
- Help your kids put their money in a savings account. ...
- Enforce the 24-hour wait rule. ...
- Have them use cash or prepaid debit cards. ...
- Encourage your children to go used. ...
- Work with your children to set specific goals. ...
- Use visual tools.
Ideally, you should save at least $250 per month if you anticipate your child attending an in-state college (four years, public), $450 per month for an out-of-state public four-year college, and $550 per month for a private non-profit four-year college, from birth to college enrollment.
What is best interest for kids? ›Although there is no standard definition of "best interests of the child," the term generally refers to the deliberation that courts undertake when deciding what type of services, actions, and orders will best serve a child as well as who is best suited to take care of a child.
How many dollars should a kid have? ›How to Set an Allowance for Kids. A commonly used rule of thumb for paying an allowance is to pay children $1 to $2 per week for each year of their age. Following this rule, a 10-year-old would receive $10 to $20 per week, while a 16-year-old would get $16 to $32 per week.
Why do kids need to save money? ›
Saving is something every kid should do. It lets you buy items that otherwise might be out of reach, keeps you out of financial trouble and makes you more independent. Often, it means you can do more, as you have more choices or get additional cash. Subsequently, you can feel happier.
Is $20 K savings good? ›Is $20,000 a Good Amount of Savings? Having $20,000 in a savings account is a good starting point if you want to create a sizable emergency fund. When the occasional rainy day comes along, you'll be financially prepared for it. Of course, $20,000 may only go so far if you find yourself in an extreme situation.
How can I save $5000 easily? ›- Break it down into months.
- Track your spending.
- Cut your expenses.
- Take advantage of windfalls.
- Join an accountability group.
- Get a side hustle.
- Try a no-spend challenge.
The basic truth is that we can do five things with our money: (1) save it; (2) spend it; (3) give it away; (4) pay taxes; and (5) pay down debt.
What are the 5 types of savings? ›There are different types of savings accounts to choose from, and they're not all alike. The options include traditional savings accounts, high-yield savings accounts, money market accounts, certificates of deposit, cash management accounts and specialty savings accounts.
What are the best saving rules? ›The 50/30/20 rule of budgeting is a simple method that helps you manage your money more effectively. This basic thumb rule is to divide your post-tax income into three spending categories – 50% for needs, 30% for wants, and 20% for savings.
What are the 4 main savings tools? ›There are four common types of savings tools: checking accounts, savings accounts, money market deposit accounts, and cerficates of deposit, ordered from lowest to highest rates of interest typically paid.
What 3 things should you save for? ›- Emergency fund. Nearly a quarter of savers who take the America Saves pledge chose “emergency savings” as their first wealth-building goal.
- Large Purchase. ...
- Car. ...
- Vacation. ...
- Retirement. ...
- Debt Repayment. ...
- Education. ...
- Homeownership.
- Start paying off your debt. ...
- Save money on your utility bills. ...
- Save money when grocery shopping. ...
- Reduce your phone bill. ...
- Cancel any unused subscriptions. ...
- Buy secondhand. ...
- Avoid an all-or-nothing mentality.
Let's recap: The golden rule is don't spend more than you earn, and focus on what you can keep. Maybe it sounds obvious, but you'd be surprised at how many people don't understand or follow this rule and end up in debt. Look at credit card use as an example.
What is the golden rule of saving money? ›
The golden rule of saving money is “save before you spend,” also known as “pay yourself first.” Another common money-saving rule is “save for the unexpected.” In other words, build an emergency fund.
What are the ABCS of saving money? ›Successful saving depends on three elements which are presented as the ABC's of Saving. A is for Aim: setting a goal. B is for Bank: creating a place to put savings. C is for Coins and currency: making saving money a habit.
How can I save money fast and better? ›- Cancel unnecessary subscription services and memberships.
- Automate your savings with an app.
- Set up automatic payments for bills if you make a steady salary.
- Switch banks.
- Open a short-term certificate of deposit (CD)
- Sign up for rewards and loyalty programs.
- Buy with cash or set a control on your card.
- Start by depositing $5 into a savings account on week 1.
- Deposit $10 into your savings account on week 2.
- Deposit $15 into your savings account on week 3.
- Deposit $20 into your savings account on week 4.
- Deposit $25 into your savings account on week 5.
- Cut out extra fees and service charges. You may be paying more than you need to for basic services, like having a checking account or using a debit card. ...
- Reduce heat and water usage. ...
- Shop smarter. ...
- Make saving automatic. ...
- Need help managing your spending?
- Say goodbye to debt. ...
- Cut down on your grocery budget. ...
- Cancel automatic subscriptions and memberships you don't use. ...
- Buy generic. ...
- Cut ties with cable. ...
- Save money automatically. ...
- Spend extra or unexpected income wisely. ...
- Adjust your tax withholdings.
One of the most essential secrets to saving money when creating your financial plan is to start an emergency fund. If any unexpected expenses arise, you can dip into this fund without touching your primary checking or savings accounts.
Should I open an IRA for my child? ›A Roth IRA isn't typically considered a savings vehicle for kids, but it should be. Roth IRAs are ideal for kids, because children have decades for their contributions to grow tax-free. And these accounts offer flexibility, too: Contributions to a Roth IRA can be withdrawn tax- and penalty-free at any time.
How much should I have saved before kids? ›A normal pregnancy typically costs between $30,000 and $50,000 without insurance, and averages $4,500 with coverage. Many costs, such as tests that moms who are at-risk or over age 35 might opt for, aren't totally covered by insurance. Plan to have at least $20,000 in the bank.
How much should you save before having a child? ›Having adequate savings can set your new family up for financial success. Usually, this takes the form of an emergency fund, which financial experts suggest should consist of anywhere between three to six months of living expenses. Add a baby into the equation and that can be more than you needed before.
How much should I save per month for my child? ›
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Recommended 529 Plan Contribution Amounts.
Age at Start | Monthly Contribution |
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2 | $260 |
3 | $270 |
4 | $280 |
5 | $290 |
- Download shopping apps. ...
- Tell your friends about your apps. ...
- Save on bills. ...
- Reduce your grocery bill. ...
- Share Brandless with your friends. ...
- Create a budget. ...
- Pay with cash. ...
- Invest your spare change.
In fact, many large custodians provide options for parents, grandparents, or any adult to set up an account for a minor child who has earned income. The adult can manage the account until the child reaches the required age in which the account must be turned over to the child. (Again the age varies by state.)
Can I set up a Roth for my child? ›A Roth IRA for Kids can be opened and receive contributions for a minor with earned income for the year. Roth IRAs provide the opportunity for tax-free growth. The earlier your kids get started saving, the greater the opportunity to build a sizeable nest egg.
What is a good age to start an IRA? ›Prime Working Years (35 to 60)
This is when people typically start thinking about opening an IRA and with good reason. You're in your prime earning years, so you likely have the money to tackle this goal. At this stage of your life, it's generally a good idea to start saving as much as possible for retirement.
Raising a child is expensive. From the day your baby is born until the day they turn 18, your family will spend about $310,605 — or about $17,000 a year, according to a new Brookings Institution analysis of data from the U.S. Agriculture Department.
How much money is good to have a baby? ›Some studies show numbers ranging from $20,000 to $50,000 for the child's first year of life, depending on location and household income. Beyond the general items, like a stroller, crib, or car seat, here are some estimates of what you can expect to shell out in your baby's first year.
How much should you make a year to have a baby? ›Have Enough Disposable Income. If $233,610 sounds like a lot, it's because it is. That amount breaks down to about $12,980 per year or $1,082 per month for one child from birth through age 17.
What is the best time to have a baby? ›Experts say the best time to get pregnant is between your late 20s and early 30s. This age range is associated with the best outcomes for both you and your baby. One study pinpointed the ideal age to give birth to a first child as 30.5. Your age is just one factor that should go into your decision to get pregnant.